Habit Conquers Habit

Habits are learned human behaviors. They did not magically appear one night. You created them. That’s right, you are the creator of your habits. You’ve made both good habits and bad habits over the course of your lifetime. So how … Continue Reading

Revolutionary New Wonder Pill

Are having a problem saying no to phony friends? Kids driving you crazy? Spending your way to the poor house? Need help saying no to all those sweets and carbs? Is you boss walking all over you like a floor … Continue Reading

The No Formula

A Simple Formula To Help You Say Yes or No

Everyday we are faced with numerous decisions to make. Some are mundane and simple. Others are more important and potentially life changing. So how do you decide which path to take? Do you just roll the dice and see what … Continue Reading

Denial – A Bad Habit’s Best Friend

“I shouldn’t focus on the negatives” or “it’s not that bad” are phrases people in denial tell themselves. While everyone alters reality in some fashion by interpreting events through personal biases addicts convince themselves that it is not them with … Continue Reading

3 Ways To Say GoodBye To Bad Habits

So you woke up this morning and finally decided to drop your bad habit well; like a bad habit. That’s great news and a good start, unfortunately this is where it ends for most people. Studies show that less than … Continue Reading

Gandhi’s Advice on Saying No

Anti-War activist and independence leader Mahatma Gandhi knew how to say no. He was a master of simple living. You could say he created the “less is more” movement decades before it gained any prominence. He worn plain clothes, enjoyed … Continue Reading

It’s Ok To Say No

No matter how hard you try you can’t do everything. Yes you can do anything, just not everything. Love yourself enough to set limits and boundaries. You are allowed to put yourself first. Respect yourself enough to find the courage … Continue Reading

It’s Ok To Say No To Your Kids, They Won’t Spontaneously Combust

Ask any parent and they will tell you kids don’t spontaneously combust when you say no to something they want. They may blow up for a moment or two, but don’t worry they won’t combust.  It can be hard to … Continue Reading

Life Is Too Short To Wait

What are you waiting for, exactly? A sign from God? The stars to align while the moon is eclipsing? A unicorn to show up in your backyard? I have news for those procrastinators waiting for just the right time, it’s … Continue Reading

Don’t Let Doubt Derail Your Recovery

Doubt is like a poison that’s seeps into your life. It whispers in your ear your not good enough or you’ll never recover. It gets under your skin. It sneaks up on you when you least expect it. Its a … Continue Reading